Wednesday, December 15, 2010

Q & A nine hundred eighty-nine focus

 The copyright of all content and a blog all along. For the convenience of reading, some letters of words are appropriate excision, but retained key elements.
Open holes in the trees: moushun@hotmail.com. Select a letter from an open back, please do not involving personal privacy. You just write to me, I turned to conceited. Also, you have the right to send a letter to me, I have the right to deal with letters, reply not reply, when answered, will please Haihan.
open holes in the trees do not respond to more than 500 words long letter, not answer letter of advice for others. Q give up work and future of; the two children should not be the; can not be an unmarried mother; sexless marriage how to do and do not want a divorce; want a divorce could not bear children; afraid of looking after him apart even worse than he's; how to do a man derailed; man is nothing but the divorce could not make the hand; older anxious to marry but of underachievement and how to get along with long-term extramarital lover, and her husband Yu Xiao-law's strong I go from here and the last A new problem had now again, are you the venue charges tree holes.
private tree holes: yushunshun@gmail.com. words and open holes in the trees over 500 did not answer, as well as inconvenience to the exposure of privacy problems, all send private tree. The tree holes received a hard charge. privacy holes in trees and also has a talk phones, such as no time to write, you can write to yushunshun@gmail.com find family number. In order to avoid harassment, the the phone will refuse to listen to refuse to back any calls without an appointment message. thank you.
no matter which tree holes sent a letter, please do not use attachments. who received a letter from an open holes in the trees, will soon be copied into the document , do not read the contents of mailbox name and address, so do the letters after a few days or on any blog, and then asked me to delete a letter or a letter of provenance query, I do not have no time to find the energy. sorry.
1, My husband betrayed me at a young age, when I want a divorce he would not leave the children did not marry, and now their kids to college, and we are old, but he gave me the injury I can not forget, my sister to do business in the field I want to walk out, then let him pay for his mistakes, you can sometimes find themselves is terrible, I should not leave it?
you want a divorce I do not oppose or support, but your reasons should be removed in retaliation factor. On the other hand, when divorce did not dare, now age one, the old and useless, and wanted to leave him, who is revenge who, it is difficult to judge.
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2, My girlfriend and I are 24, a former high school classmates. University of 3 and a half years at the object, when a relationship is the first time, graduated from college broke up in January after breaking her place in Beijing on business and colleagues relationship. She explained that drinking too much increases depressed, and that men take care of her. That man is a married man. Now we are divided by 4 months, she told me things from time to time, have, and well, I psychological pressure, afraid of the future such a thing again. She cried for 3 days, I shake, a good decision to go with her. but deep down I have the shadow. I want to do wrong is not afraid, I want a man's tolerance to forgive her, after all, It was with what happened after I separated. But if some family members do not agree, because separated. families did not know these things happened between us. I'm a mess, is go with the flow, or which ones to count what does?
If you different city, even if this love it, because greater than the difficulties with the difficulties of breaking up. If the city, and she wholeheartedly with you, you can consider giving her the opportunity, and good after going to cherish each other. your family The opposition should not be your reason to give up her, in fact, she does not fit you and others now or this thing to bed, if not truly forgiving and understanding, then do not, and good, not as an excuse to take the attitude of the family .
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3, entanglement in place at the debate with non-I, really sad, I was ignorant is not a virgin, life will continue to be, do not know should be told the story later boyfriend, how to do his mind? would not mind if I am guilty. I am in the end how to do? this is simply the shadow left me too. I am a very traditional girl bones, even the very mind my own this, in the end I boyfriend how to say on the future?
If you want privacy as a non-partner to share things, then first of all privacy dug next boyfriend come, especially to dig that he did not masturbate, masturbation fantasy of who had been to brothels prostitution sites do you visit a prostitute stole den grass do you eat soft food and so on. These are asked to understand, then explain your own hymen problems. But in advance to tell you, men will not all be accountable, so you had better just say work, sister of 22 universities in time. parents running a business, the face of it his family well, in fact, loans to interpersonal pressure is very great. I have Sanjiu an aunt. Xiaojiu first marriage with a daughter now 12 years old to remarry after a pair of twin children. Xiaojiu her daughter no matter do not ask, on the grandfather grandma, parents often go to see and support. Xiaojiu that my family in very good condition, after his daughter raised directly to my parents, and the account moved to my home. aunt also think that my house in good condition, like my son brought the city to study, accounts are moved to. other uncle, after all that my parents take care of by grandparents.
can start the way I know my parents are very hard, they again could not bear to bear pressure. these words the people will not understand, because, after all, Mom and Dad is a businessman, and they are all ordinary work. parents kind and said that if the uncle, aunt must do to comply. but I think, someone is not sweet without sweat it? uncle aunt has a job, why not economical point? their money does not finance, spent more than they earn. I think to help them raise children adopted daughter is better to give some money to help them. Shun Shun, How can I help dad Mom to solve this problem? really distressed parents.
your parents heart good and kind, should be affirmed. Family is difficult to say Dao Ming,cheap UGG boots, since you have brothers and sisters willing to father and mother involvement, then let them continue to offer it, you Only hard work can do as far as possible to help reduce the burden on parents. Of course, if you stand most of the current situation, but also do a big bad: While the majority of the presence of relatives and friends, to your father and mother all these years by the bitter and you the actual economic situation at home say it to offend to offend the enjoyment,bailey UGG boots, but also let some people unconsciously after a bit taboo: Think of your presence and your father and mother do not bother to re-open. this is your struggle to victory. on support grandparents, who are generally paid large capacity multi-point will come, this can not care about, but between brothers and sisters use the service, need not be too hard, it will easily help lazy lazy.
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5 I have two sisters one brother her parents, the parents are over 70, I'm the youngest at home, and life in the field (distance 240 km). my father thought for a conservative, patriarchal very serious, I'm 15 years old to participate in work, marriage her parents only to very little money, but also turned over to save my salary is basically the birth of a child her parents had never seen one. belongings (parents are civil servants, high income, there are several real estate) that give me long ago brother, my brother in public security work, ruffian gas is very serious, alcohol, had called her sister, also scolded my mother, but his parents could forgive him, never to admit him, but spoil. These days my mom sick hospital, high fever, can not find the reason, my elder sister in the hospital work more convenient to take care of my mother, but because my parents what she has eccentric views. Today, my mother called to tell me that she was hospitalized for two days to watch a child I came in Friday and Saturday. I can not see, I was in the field, to go to work every day, busy with work, kids in junior high school, at noon to go home for dinner, my brother and sister's children to college, and a sister does not work, the key is I would like to watch 3 hours drive away. I know where to go take care of Mom, but it was very Biequ, copies of the family's wealth did not take care of their parents when all the same? you say how can I do, I Can my mom take care of you received my city?
two ways: first, to find workers for two days per week do your living for you; Second, access to care for the mother for some time. Also: Speaking of family's wealth did not daughters, old-age daughter to participate in this have to do is we country a legacy of feudal tradition, you hardly have a great innovation. might Relax, do not want parents to our heritage, it. We in fact are not pension to heritage, but to us they have raised. feeding is a virtue.

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